I Guess I’m Defending My Sexuality Now

I wrote a post a long time ago called “Why Would a Lesbian Sleep with Men?” It was a cathartic series of words contemplating why someone as super gay as me (trust me, I love boobs more than I love food and I love food) would fuck a couple of dudes (not all at once. Reasonably…

The Big Picture is Killing Me

The Big Picture is Killing Me

I’m going to be the very best! That’s what I tell myself. And then I am immediately ashamed that I am not the very best the very next day. As if I’ll wake up and be debt-free, 150 pounds of muscle, and suddenly able to avoid superior dental care. It’s good to have goals. Essential,…

Re-Branding My Life

Re-Branding My Life

I started building websites when I was 12, after moving to North Carolina and having trouble making friends. It used to be that I could sit down and build and blog and market for hours. But right now, even writing these last few sentences feels like pulling teeth. The only thing I can work up…

How Having Depression Affects My Business

As I stared into my bank account willing $50 to become $500, I thought to myself, “why am I broke?” It’s not like I don’t know how this happened. But why is it still happening? The painfully obvious answer is that I’m not putting in the work. The first Headway Themes related website I built…

Reflecting on 2014…

Reflecting on 2014…

I’m supposed to blog about my whole year now, right? I don’t really want to. I want to look towards 2015 instead. I mean, I guess I could sum up what happened to me this past year. I got a cat stolen. I got my heart broken. A best friend turned out to be basically…

Do I Regret Becoming a Cyberbully in 2014? Not Really.

Do I Regret Becoming a Cyberbully in 2014? Not Really.

First, cyber bullying is a serious problem that affects many everyday. The laws regarding online harassment are shaky at best, and it doesn’t take much for a psychopath with a keyboard to reduce a victim to an anxious and depression-ridden mess. That being said, there is a ridiculously large dividing line between “cyberbullying” and “a…

Look I Didn't Name the Event, Okay?

A few months ago I had the…pleasure…? of meeting comedic talent Purdy Holsom. Apparently she like, lives near me. It’s not terrifying at all. My life is better because of the song “Ladies Don’t Crap.” Definitely. Anyway we exchanged phone numbers so I could be told about this super cool LGBT centered open mic. I…